Mar
4
Relationship Stages
An interesting view, that relationships have stages. Regarding the few intimate relationships I've had, would say the stages are:
1. Who is this person? What might we do together as a team? 2. Wow, this is wonderful. I'll do anything for her/him. 3. Wait a minute. Is what I'm doing to demonstrate love working how it's intended? Maybe this needs a bit of investigation and adjustment so the demonstrations I contribute to create love in the relationship goes where there are intended. In return, what I allow them to do for me also constructively floats my boat. 4. Trades, offerings and tacit agreements evolve and are enjoyed. 5. A way to update these agreements becomes necessary.
1. Who is this person? What might we do together as a team? 2. Wow, this is wonderful. I'll do anything for her/him. 3. Wait a minute. Is what I'm doing to demonstrate love working how it's intended? Maybe this needs a bit of investigation and adjustment so the demonstrations I contribute to create love in the relationship goes where there are intended. In return, what I allow them to do for me also constructively floats my boat. 4. Trades, offerings and tacit agreements evolve and are enjoyed. 5. A way to update these agreements becomes necessary.
